My first blog doc..dunno how much it will be effective...
This is about one of my friends.i met her recently after a gap of many years.And i had the experience of the saying "Life goes ON..So you do need to move on.."
...She was the normal gorl..kind of nerd as people used to say....calm,kind..never interfered in anything..and never allowed anyone else to interfere in her own life...She never trusted anyone very easily..she had very few friend..you can say no friends till her college life but after that she had really very good,trustworthy friends...She never hurt anyone ,rather she cant think of hurting anyone..BUT...then when she was blammed for hurting someone , someone she never could even think of hurting a bit..she was heartbroken...n still she is broken...She tried hard to move on..now she is moved on as she has realised now..dat life goes on so u need to move on with it else you will miss something importatnt....
.....
This a story about her..in short...
same old story..in college she liked one guy from her class..
At the begining, he was like her..kind of introvert , shy..He was all rounder..good at studies,sports..good loooking..softly behaved....
BUT...this was for only 6 months..after that he changed or mebbe he was on his original nature...dunno..!!!
She did not complain about this...The days went on and on and on.....nad she kept on realising many things...but she never complained..she kept evrything to herself and i guesss here she went wrong....!!!!
Day by day that guy went on dramatising situations...kept on blaming her for not understanding him...
Now following are the things HE did..:
->being jealous with her e.g. in examz if she got even 1-2 marks more than him,he used to get upset..never celebrated any of her victories bcz..he hd lost that and was low bcz of that...but when he had victories and she had lost the same ,he expected her to celebrate his happinesss and if she could not .then blame her...
->tryin to seduce other gorls in front of her...ohhh this was fun for him..and when she retortd him on this..his answer used to be."Arrey..m kidddin re..you know na,i love you...if i want to cheat then i can do this behind your back and not in front of you.."...imagine...if he could do this in front of her then...
->never really accepted his relationship in front of HIS people...
............AND this stupid friend of mine never fought...thinkin that he would understand some day...She never complaint...Her BIggest mistake...Relatioship seemd like more of one sided........
But then after ..once she thought of breaking up with him...wise decision from her side..but NO..she again stupidly thought that he will change some day...but then she went on looosing her patience...n one day she screamd for her place in their relationship......
and that was the END...!!!!
That bloody f***er...blamed her again for not understanding him and for becoming possessive...
They then tried to talk to solve all issues but the intellectual distance between them had gone tooo long...and they broke up...!!!!
She was broken completely..and that guy broke her heart and walkd on those pieces crushing them even more...and till date he has NOT given her the reason for break up..!!!!
It was tooo hard for her to move on ....and he made it more hard by asking her to be friends...
They were classmates..friends..n Ex's..of each other..and one whole year of this situation....toughest situation of alllllllllllll............!!!!
Yeah..now she has moved on ...and she is having great life now...but somewhere her heart is not yet healed completely..."Life goes on and she has now learned to move on..."..
Yeah...in all these situations...her best friend helped her alot...she never expected so much of help...
Now..she is at good life of her, which her best friend helped her to get...
NO contact with him anymore making her to heal and njoy her life...
Stillll some part of her is broken..i know damage was very bad...and i guesss time will help her...!!!
No comments:
Post a Comment